The death of James Paroline; A community speaks
Here are some excerpts of emails and comments about the traffic circle murder in Rainier Beach:
Killing was a hate crime:
1. Why is everyone pretending there is not a racial aspect to this story. Would the young women have screamed and yelled at a 60-year old black man? I doubt it. Would the young man have hit a 60-year old black man? I doubt it. Everyone seems quick to blame the 60-year old man for his own death. There is no reason those young women should have even confronted the man, they could have simply drove around the other way and called the police to deal with the traffic cones. Does this give me the right to start a confrontation with every black youth with an ultra-loud and illegal car stereo system, and then call a white friend to come and punch him? If the colors were reversed, every black leader in the country would be crying racism and hate crime, and demanding that every white person involved be charged with a hate crime.
2. If this wasn’t a hate crime I don’t know what is. A crime against humanity!
Family member of suspect expresses sorrow
Brian is my cousin and I’m grateful that he has turned himself in. I cannot believe that this has happened. My prayers are with Brian and the victim’s family.
Fight like a man
a man would not fight when he can walk away
a man would not call his mama. What can she say?
a man would not use a church to hide his guilt
a man can hold his own because that’s the way he’s built.
Race has nothing to do with it
1. This issue is not about color at all, it is about this generation as a whole. This generation is developing a narcissistic attitude toward human life in general. Children of all races have become desensitized toward civil rights and healthy social relationships within the community and television, music, video games and magazines don’t make it any better! I am a black woman and I know these individuals. What they did was a horrible act against another human being. But this issue goes much deeper than skin. This is psychological. These kids are not being fed hatred against “white people”, these kids are being fed hatred against themselves and no one has a perfect solution to fix this problem.
2…Regardless of race, today’s parents are to blame for the state of youth today. Discipline is not handed out consistently, and it seems that some parents just don’t care, or don’t know how to provide guidelines and guidance. If any of these kids are minors, their parents should be held accountable. I’ve raised 2 children, by myself; I’m the only one to blame if my children grew up without values and morals. Our children learn from what they see; learn from their role models. Where are their parents/guardians? A five year old knows the difference between right and wrong; the truth and a lie. This is a hideous crime, and we should all be enraged by it.
3. Maybe I’m getting old, but I feel like I see a lot more of a thoughtless and unfeeling attitude in some teens and young adults (in kids of all races) - seems like all that means anything to them or is real to them is THEIR feelings, THEIR concerns, other people aren’t real so they don’t have to be polite to other people, do anything for other people, care about other people.
Where ‘race’ fits in
1. I am glad to see someone from the offenders’ same racial community has something honest to say about this happening. The fact is, when something like this happens, we in the white community do tend to collectively think “Poor old white man did not want to leave his home or community and he paid with his life”. Many of us also think “why should we (whites) be so concerned about what is happening in the black community when they allow this to go on every day”. I believe many of us also think “if this was reversed, black activists would be all over the news about it.” [I can say I am not alone in my opinion because I speak with other racially sensitive white folks about this type of stuff in daily life]. Is this the result of the offenders racial hatred and anger? If so, how long will our nations racial past be an excuse for revenge? How long will we be expected to keep our feelings inside because we “can’t understand what it is like to be afraid of being pulled over by a white cop”? No matter how you slice it, this type of thing is bad for all of us. We keep taking 1 step forward, 2 steps back.
2. I have been threatened by blacks in Seattle on a few occasions over the years, for what appeared to be my white skin color, but never by whites (I am white). I can see myself in Paroline’s shoes, had I ever stuck up for myself and challenged those angry and confused black men and women. The reason I never defended myself from public humiliation is because I felt that if I did, I might end up seriously wounded or dead. The hate of the white man is, in my eyes, clear as day in South Seattle, where I live. There are many blacks around me for whom this is not an issue whatsoever — most of them are African immigrants or Muslim. Many purportedly “Christian” American-bred blacks, especially the ill-educated, seem to be spoonfed the idea from birth that the white man all around them is their oppressor — to be hated and scorned, taunted and stolen from at every chance. If a white person talks openly about reverse discrimination (blacks against whites) in South Seattle, they tend to be reprimanded by both blacks and whites. Yet the whites are a minority in most neighborhoods in South Seattle.
Onlookers could have done more
But I also asked myself what I would’ve done if I were one of the onlookers, and I like to think that I may have tried to reason with the young women on Mr. Paroline’s behalf. He was obviously surrounded, and being taunted. Couldn’t someone with a cooler, more objective head approach the situation and act as mediator? Why do people feel the need to let things escalate to tragedy before they become involved? People stopped to capture the scene digitally, yet who stepped in to help Mr. Paroline? Perhaps if the folks observing all gathered, in community, with Mr. Paroline, the girls would’ve left and Mr. Brown would’ve been driven past the circle without incident. Now that he’s gone, though, everyone wants to help him get justice, but I really feel that there is plenty of blame to heap on everybody here.
Young women should be charged with a crime
I was apalled by this entire incident for so many reasons- and I couldn’t possibly write them all here. It was completely reactive and unnecessary and in the space of a 2 minute phone call for reinforcement (not needed)from their thug friend, lives will be changed forever. I don’t understand the apathy in our young teens and adults today. Was it really that serious? They had to call for back up? I think the girls (yes, I said GIRLS because most grown women I know do not, nor would they ever behave this way and if they found out their daughters did, there would ass kicking from here to Alabama.) should be charged as accomplices at the VERY least. And I hope to see the lil GIRL who made the phone call to Mr. Bad Ass get charged as an accessory. Why? Because something tells me she knew damn well exactly what would happen when she made that call. There needs to be consequences all around and I for one, can’t wait to see it.


















